Call – Listen – Obey!

When I speak of the animus or the anima inside of you I am not talking about animals but about pure and simple primal sexual nature which no longer is subject to human cares, worries, fears and considerations. It is you at its freest, sexiest, deeply erotic, sluttiest and selfish. It is you with all those falsely moralistic (I will explain that in a minute) notions removed and your true sense of being the human animal, the deliciously sexual creation you were born to be coming free to play, share, enjoy and experience what sexuality is truly meant to be. It is removing all the chains of someone elses thoughts which have nothing to do with you.

Now let me explain the term “falsely moralistic” to you. In each of us is a natural moral fiber which we can not overcome since it is fully part of our being and spirit. For each of us this moral fiber is slightly different. It is the natural and healthy failsafe which will stop us from committing a crime or do something to another human being we could not live with after.

Each mentally healthy individual has it of course there are sadly some rather taunting exceptions to that rule. I am not talking about those however, I am talking about you and me who are hopefully within the ranks of mentally healthy.

False moralities are the moralities of others who have been forced upon us by religious upbringing, by society norms and often even ethical biase. With other words if we are 100% honest with ourself we do not see a moral problem with behaving in this way. We secretly enjoy what those who are shaping our moral standards are telling us is wrong.

Let me give you a simple and very frequent example.
Christianity, Muslim and several other religious dogmas teach us that being a homosexual of either gender is sinful and moralisticly wrong. We are taught from young on that if we look at someone of our own gender with lust and longing we are not only sick, but are committing a crime against nature. This of course is a bunch of BS. If you look throughout history before the rise of the Christian Churches many men and women enjoyed sexual encounters with both genders freely and aside from the risk you take no matter which gender you prefer of STDs there was nothing wrong or bad about it.
Even today in a world where we claim to be sexually open we are still extremely repressed. Many men especially are hypocritical in nature. They have the fantasy of seeing two women having sex, but are repulsed by two men enjoying each other. If you dig a little deeper however you will find that some of the ones who think they must scream loudly how sick it is to be with another men secretly lust after this “forbidden” experience.

Many of my callers confess their secret desire to be fucked and used by another man. To suck another man’s cock or have theirs sucked by another. They are guilt stricken by this thought, feel deeply ashamed and worry about their immortal soul for these sinful thoughts. They feel horrified that this sexual fantasy of becoming some other guys bitch toy is so important now that they no longer even can enjoy their own female companions cunt without thinking of this.

As you can see not only are they hidding in a deeply shame filled closet but they are in reality causing damage to their formerly healthy relationship with their loving female companion. If you think she can’t tell the difference you are wrong, but she may or may not call it wrong. Can you imagine the shock and horror she would experience when she suddenly would find your secret stash of gay porn which you jerk off to constantly while rejecting her advances?

The irony of this is that what makes it such a powerful image and something that can almost cause you emotional based erectile disfunction when it comes to sex with a woman is that it is forbidden. That you have made it dirty, not to be experienced and are now struggeling within yourself. If instead you would be honest and discount the false morality which is not yours to begin with, you would open up an entirely new world for yourself and perhaps even your partner.

One of three things would happen:

1. You would try it and find out that it isn’t all you have build it up to be in your fantasy. You have had the experience and may desire to do it again, but it no longer stops you from enjoying your woman fully.
2. You absolutely love it! You find that being with another men frees something hidden up within you and that you can be a lot dirtier, rougher, freer with him than with the woman you feel you must be “overly” gentle with all the time. Sex between men is a very selfish act to be honest. There isn’t any really prolonged foreplay and often it is down and dirty, where women tend to want a lot of “love” before and after. Likewise two women with each other know what each needs. There may be a lot more kissing, touching and arousal than with a male partner.
3. You take the risk of letting your female companion in on the need to experience another man as your sexual partner and if you are extremely lucky she may even find this thought so arousing that you now can enjoy a male lover together. Just imagine the joy of being able to not only be your dirty self but watch your woman take the same pleasure freely for herself on both of you.

Out of personal experience I know that when I set the animus in myself free to be selfish, demanding and forth right with my partner I experience much more satisfying sex and am achieving orgasm after orgasm unlike anything when I play the “good girl”.

When I let myself go and not censor or hold back my reactions with my husband I literally can cum 30 to 40 times during one sexual encounter with him. I know that by letting myself go like this and not worry about what he wants, what he feels, what he may think about me, I in fact give him the greatest gift I can. A woman who not only enjoys herself but takes true pleasure on his body. I free him up to be the little sex toy most men secretly wish they could be for their woman. He never has to guess if he pleased me, if he was enough for me in bed and I take the pressure of performance of him in one single action.

When my husband and I got together and for many years within our relationship I held back and did only what I knew he wanted me to do. Evenso we are both BDSM Lifestylers and with that in mind are able to go to places many of our vanilla counterparts would not be able to openly take pleasure on (afterall it is wrong for them moralistically) I still was very repressed in my reactions with him. I knew by his behavior and the way he talked that he would not be “amused” and assumed that I would cause problems in the bedroom if I let myself go and play with him the way I wanted to. This of course caused our sex life to become frustrating for me and less than stellar for him as well. We became like many long married couples extremely monotone and it soon became dreadfully predictable. There is nothing like being predictable all the time to kill your sexual interest in each other. I used to term it “duty sex”. Sounds familiar?

It was ironically during a very rough part in our relationship in which we were “spit up” but still living together that this broke. Since I no longer was his “wife” I no longer found it necessary to put his wants and needs first, but was no able to be selfish and let go. What was the worst he could do to me? Kick me out of his life? Tell me he no longer wanted to be married to me? Refuse to have sex with me? You see where this was no longer a concern for me since most of this had already happened. I was free to just indulge myself and started letting go completely and take what I wanted from him.

This was the best that could ever had happened to both of us and our marriage was safed. Our sexlife has much improved since then and we are both now looking forward to using each other for our mutual enjoyment. I find the look on peoples faces hilarious when I say that I have a better and much more fullfilling sex life with my husband after being with him for 12 years than I did when we were together for only 5 or 6.

Are you curious to know what made me so different that I was afraid to show that side of me to him? Where many people are very verbal during sex as in talking dirty my being verbal is slightly different. If I am extremely aroused I loose the ability of speech almost entirely and instead growl and almost snarl. My voice literally takes on the sounds of a wild cat and I do scream my orgasm out. After several of hard orgasm I literally purr deep inside of my throat, a reaction that lets him know now that I am in my animalistic state and that I am no longer worried about what he wants or thinks. If there is something he wants he now must guide me or just let me play on his body.

I love to lick, nip, bite and scratch. For that reason I keep my nails fairly small cut so I don’t do harm to him. I love to dig my fingers into his ass, grab his balls and stretch them while teasing his cock with my lips and tongue. I will ride him and tease him mercilessly. I love (and yes I mean it I actually not only enjoy but love to) suck his cock and he can hear just how much I do when I start purring, chuckling, giggling and moaning around it. Depending on how much I am enjoying myself and how good his reactions to it are the noises change and become stronger.

I am a bigger woman and I was always worried about sitting on his face and riding his tongue and mouth. Using him for my oral toy so to speak. I was afraid that I might be too heavy for him or that this would turn him off. Oh boy how wrong can one woman be. Now I simply push him back and climb on his face without hesitation, enjoying his talented tongue on my cunt and clit. I love it and cum freely, squirting into his mouth and growling without feeling guilty for taking all the pleasure without feeling it necessary to give back to him right then and there.

I used to worry about upsetting him if I wanted to smack his beautiful ass or grab him by the hair or cock to command what would bring me pleasure at that moment. What a foolish notion that was. Now I know that if he isn’t in the mood he will simply let me know and we either do something else or not do anything that day at all.

That in turn too made it freer for both of us. He no longer needs to feel as if he is upsetting me if he is too tired one night to have sex with me after a long day at work. Ironically it is quiet often me who wants a quickie and just a quick cum, milking his cock with my mouth or cunt. No long drawn out foreplay just pure and simply sex. Other times we both want it to last all day long and we go after one another over and over again with me cuming so many times that I forget just how many times I did cum, and him edging along all day long until finally at night he too screams and growls his orgasm at me.

Where before if he wanted something I really wasn’t in the  mood for I would “suffer” through it, I now feel able to just say no or guide it away from it to something I would rather do with him. The results are always much more satisfying than me being half dry and needing to use lubrication because I can’t get excited enough and just want to get it over with.

A man knows if a woman endures his attentions and just lets him get off or if she truly desires him and wants him as much as he does her at the moment. A real man can tell if he is being suffered through or if his woman is enjoying getting fucked, sucked and used by him or using him. That my darlings is letting the animus in you go free.

My husband and I used to be swingers and he would enjoy seeing me getting fucked by a mulitude of different strange men. You would think that bringing the slut out in this usually very strict and stern, always controlled woman would have been the best sex of our life right? You would be wrong at least for me.
I have had 15 + men at one time in a gang bang before and have cum over and over again, but it is the absolute truth when I tell you that all 15 of them together could not and didn’t satisfy me as much as I am satisfied now with my husband alone. Now how many of you guys would love to be able to say that about your woman? What a reason for pride and holding his head up high is that for my husband? I would say a lot.

I don’t care how big your cock is, and trust me my husband is well endowed and yes he is the typical big cock guy who thinks that having a big dick is a reason to be proud, you couldn’t do half as much for me as he can and does whenever we enjoy each other. It isn’t the size of his cock so that does it, but that I can be myself with him. That I can growl and not worry that he will freak out on me. That I can use him as my lover boy toy and he won’t get bend out of shape because of it. You know what is even better? There will come a time in his life just like there will in every other man out there where his cock won’t get hard or will remain semi-hard at best. That happens with age guys and there isn’t a damn thing besides taking pills that you can about. It won’t make a damn difference with me so, because I can still use him and find enjoyment with him in ways that a young hard cocked punk could never give me.

Letting the animus in me go free means that no matter what – if I wish to be the agressive one or the submissive on that day in bed – I can have it with him and enjoy it to the fullest without feeling fearful, repressed or find it necessary to make excuses for it after.

I can do this because I don’t belief in false morality or in what others might think about me. As a Mistress to everyone else it can easily be taken as “well if she can submit to her husband and be his little slut she isn’t a real Mistress” and I will just laugh into your face for it. How silly and small minded you little idiots really are. It is that ability to let myself go and take what I want and when I want it that makes me one hell of a strong Mistress who will always get her way in the end.

Now I would love to hear from you and let’s discuss your hidden fantasies and what you are afraid of others maybe finding out about you…

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